I am a Stanford GSB alumna, a mother of three, a keynote speaker, a podcast host, and the creator of The Steeled Protocol. But before any of that, I am a survivor. In January 2016, my husband Jeff jumped from the Transamerica building in San Francisco, leaving me to raise our three children alone. Five years later, my eldest son Grant was murdered. These losses did not define me. They forged me. Through the wreckage of unimaginable grief, I built a framework for rebuilding that I now share with audiences and leaders around the world. The Steeled Protocol is a seven-pillar governance system for reconstructing your life, your leadership, and your legacy after catastrophic loss.